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Friday, June 15, 2007

Would you like some advice with that salad?

So today I was out for lunch with a friend and I forgot to bring any toys for Kiddo to play with. I'll chalk that up to being new at the "busy boy" stage.

Anyways. I gave Kiddo a napkin to tear and chew (which if you asked him, he would prefer to the toy any day). I am chatting away and the man from the next table came over to me and told me that Kiddo was going to choke on the napkin if he tried to swallow. I thanked him for his attention.

Now I wasn't really offended. I will admit that I had been chatting more than I had been paying attention to the chewing of the napkin. And I did pull quite a wad out of his mouth. I rummaged around in the diaper bag and found Kiddo's sunglasses. He promptly took them of his head and played happily.

And then our concerned neighbor came over again to let me know that Kiddo was poking his eye with the sunglasses. I smiled and said, "I guess he'd better learn not to do that pretty quick." In my defense, they were child sunglasses and not particularly pointy. Kiddo is also getting coordinated enough that I'm not too worried about him accidentally gouging out his eyes.

Again I was not too offended. But later in the meal I did check to see if our neighbor was still there before I gave Kiddo the straw to play with. Maybe I should be more concerned about these things. Or maybe my neighbor should be less concerned. Who knows?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh, I have such a hard time with 'helpful' advice. I know people mean well, but when it's more than once and they are constantly watching your child as if you weren't, it just really gets to me. I just politely thank them and then try to ignore their looks.

Inexperienced Mom said...

I think that is pretty much how I handled it. It was my first experience of the sort and I think I held my own. It did make me stop and question myself, however.

Carrie said...

Sounds like you handled that great! I think people do that a lot more when your kids are babies! I haven't had that as much as my daughter became a toddler! Don't question yourself too much! We have the mother's instincts that our neighbors don't have! Plus you know your son and what he's capable of right now too! I'm sure you're a GREAT mom!

I just noticed how big Kiddo is now! Wow! How the time flies!